Lifelong learning \ 1-1
The conceptions of the nature of man, the ethics of human actions throughout history. determined his political and metaphysical orientations. Therefore, it can be said that many emerging structures, from moral choices to social organizations, from state orders to education systems, are a direct or indirect manifestation of the answer to the question of what human is. For this reason, the question of what man is is central to any conception of the world. modernity. By radically transforming the classical conceptions of the nature of man, he revealed one of the most important breaks in human history. It is therefore a way of achieving a correct understanding of the modern period. It is through identifying and analyzing the transformations of human imagination in this period.
In this book, the debates about the nature of human being in modern Western thought are discussed and the effects of different definitions of human in these fields on the formation and transformation of various scientific disciplines are evaluated. In addition, the book also includes various debates in contemporary Islamic thought, providing an answer to the question of how the transformations that emerged with modernity affect human conceptions in the Islamic world. In this way, readers will have the opportunity to follow the simultaneous and simultaneous effects of the radically changing universe and human imagination.
In this book, the debates about the nature of human being in modern Western thought are discussed and the effects of different definitions of human in these fields on the formation and transformation of various scientific disciplines are evaluated. In addition, the book also includes various debates in contemporary Islamic thought, providing an answer to the question of how the transformations that emerged with modernity affect human conceptions in the Islamic world. In this way, readers will have the opportunity to follow the simultaneous and simultaneous effects of the radically changing universe and human imagination.
The main purpose of the book is to help people to be themselves, to find their "real self", to change their negative thoughts to realistic and positive thoughts, and to experience realistic and positive emotions, and to change their behavior in a positive way. It is not easy to go back to the essence, to move from the negative to the positive. There will be troubles on this road. Only this can be achieved, and we can be individuals who are happy, fulfilled, and enjoy the irresistible pleasure of being ourselves.
In other words, instead of feelings of guilt, shame, worthlessness, insecurity, and humiliation, we deserve to trust ourselves, to feel valuable, to love, to be loved, to shape our lives according to the real needs and wishes of the "real me" and to be happy. It is in our hands to turn our world, which we have made into hell with our own thoughts, into heaven. Thoughts can be changed. Only in this way can we succeed in being the selves we deserve.
For these reasons, the book mainly focuses on the basic concepts of positive psychology, cognitive psychology, rational emotional behavioral therapy, humanistic psychology and psychoanalytic theory, especially early childhood, parental effects and psychodynamic-based understanding. In order to get rid of negative thoughts and turn to positive and realistic thoughts and think strongly, techniques and examples related to the subject are given under the title of "INTERNAL SPEAKING EDUCATION".
Among the main titles of our book; thinking styles, positive and negative thoughts, getting rid of negative thoughts, emotions triggered by thoughts, early childhood and parental effects that play a role in their formation, defective attitudes and unreal and negative messages conveyed to the child, their effects on the shaping of the child's and later adult's thoughts and feelings, To be happy, to think effectively and to have positive feelings in accordance with the truth, to find our own “real self”, our own essence, to face it and the difficulties experienced with it, to be compassionate, sincere, sincere, honest, brave, tolerant towards ourselves. Being obsessed with perfectionism, self-alienation, resistance to change due to fear of being hurt, shame and their causes, criteria of psychological health and the sources that feed it, our immune system, love, bonding, neurotic lifestyle, depression, anxiety (anxiety) and its causes, positive and negative self-concept, spiritual There are the definition and importance of price, hope, the meaning, types, reasons of the emotions we experience, the relationship between emotion, thought and behavior, strength, competence, resilience and ways to help ourselves.
All these and the things mentioned in the book; These are the basic elements that will help us on the journey from negative to positive, to the “real self”, to our essence.
In other words, instead of feelings of guilt, shame, worthlessness, insecurity, and humiliation, we deserve to trust ourselves, to feel valuable, to love, to be loved, to shape our lives according to the real needs and wishes of the "real me" and to be happy. It is in our hands to turn our world, which we have made into hell with our own thoughts, into heaven. Thoughts can be changed. Only in this way can we succeed in being the selves we deserve.
For these reasons, the book mainly focuses on the basic concepts of positive psychology, cognitive psychology, rational emotional behavioral therapy, humanistic psychology and psychoanalytic theory, especially early childhood, parental effects and psychodynamic-based understanding. In order to get rid of negative thoughts and turn to positive and realistic thoughts and think strongly, techniques and examples related to the subject are given under the title of "INTERNAL SPEAKING EDUCATION".
Among the main titles of our book; thinking styles, positive and negative thoughts, getting rid of negative thoughts, emotions triggered by thoughts, early childhood and parental effects that play a role in their formation, defective attitudes and unreal and negative messages conveyed to the child, their effects on the shaping of the child's and later adult's thoughts and feelings, To be happy, to think effectively and to have positive feelings in accordance with the truth, to find our own “real self”, our own essence, to face it and the difficulties experienced with it, to be compassionate, sincere, sincere, honest, brave, tolerant towards ourselves. Being obsessed with perfectionism, self-alienation, resistance to change due to fear of being hurt, shame and their causes, criteria of psychological health and the sources that feed it, our immune system, love, bonding, neurotic lifestyle, depression, anxiety (anxiety) and its causes, positive and negative self-concept, spiritual There are the definition and importance of price, hope, the meaning, types, reasons of the emotions we experience, the relationship between emotion, thought and behavior, strength, competence, resilience and ways to help ourselves.
All these and the things mentioned in the book; These are the basic elements that will help us on the journey from negative to positive, to the “real self”, to our essence.
Every individual is exposed to verbal and nonverbal messages given by their parents or parent figures since childhood. Some accept these messages as they are, while others reject them or vice versa. In this direction, people can develop many behaviors such as rebelling, adapting and self-criticism.
This book aims to make the person discover himself by taking him on a journey in his inner world. At the same time, it makes it easier for oneself and others to notice interpersonal communication styles, and in this direction, it shows a way for the development and change of the person. It offers keys to help a person understand the causes of conflicts with himself and others and to resolve these conflicts.
If you are wondering the answers to the questions below, you can feel better and take a step towards a more free life with this book.
• Do you want everything to be perfect, including yourself?
• Do you always see yourself as right but the people in front of you wrong?
• Do you suddenly become a victim while blaming someone?
• Do you always feel incomplete, but do you consider other people as better than yourself?
• No matter how hard you try, can't you reach the point you want?
• Do you exhibit the same behavior patterns in the face of different events, even though you don't want it?
• Do you often try to please others, ignoring your own needs?
• Do you have difficulty in understanding the other person in your communications?
• Do you always have the same problems and feel similar feelings in your communication with different people?
This book aims to make the person discover himself by taking him on a journey in his inner world. At the same time, it makes it easier for oneself and others to notice interpersonal communication styles, and in this direction, it shows a way for the development and change of the person. It offers keys to help a person understand the causes of conflicts with himself and others and to resolve these conflicts.
If you are wondering the answers to the questions below, you can feel better and take a step towards a more free life with this book.
• Do you want everything to be perfect, including yourself?
• Do you always see yourself as right but the people in front of you wrong?
• Do you suddenly become a victim while blaming someone?
• Do you always feel incomplete, but do you consider other people as better than yourself?
• No matter how hard you try, can't you reach the point you want?
• Do you exhibit the same behavior patterns in the face of different events, even though you don't want it?
• Do you often try to please others, ignoring your own needs?
• Do you have difficulty in understanding the other person in your communications?
• Do you always have the same problems and feel similar feelings in your communication with different people?
One of the traumatic experiences in childhood and adolescence is "bullying" behaviors. Bullying behaviors of various types (verbal, physical, emotional, racist, hiding, behavior disrupting, taking/destroying something belonging to someone else and sexual) seen at school and in virtual environments adversely affect the social, emotional and psychological development of children and adolescents. and cause legal problems.
These negative effects of bullying behaviors are not limited to childhood and adolescence, but it is seen that they negatively affect important personality traits such as self-esteem, self-confidence, psychological resilience, psychological well-being and feelings of love, respect, tolerance and trust in bilateral human relations.
In this work, the types, causes and consequences of bullying behavior, which is an important obstacle to individual development and positive bilateral human relations, are discussed in detail, and a model for the prevention of these behaviors with empathic skills is presented. With this book, besides academicians and practitioners (school psychological counselor, child and adolescent psychologist, classroom guidance teacher) who will work on bullying; It is aimed to help school administrators, branch teachers and parents develop awareness about the types, causes and consequences of bullying behavior.
These negative effects of bullying behaviors are not limited to childhood and adolescence, but it is seen that they negatively affect important personality traits such as self-esteem, self-confidence, psychological resilience, psychological well-being and feelings of love, respect, tolerance and trust in bilateral human relations.
In this work, the types, causes and consequences of bullying behavior, which is an important obstacle to individual development and positive bilateral human relations, are discussed in detail, and a model for the prevention of these behaviors with empathic skills is presented. With this book, besides academicians and practitioners (school psychological counselor, child and adolescent psychologist, classroom guidance teacher) who will work on bullying; It is aimed to help school administrators, branch teachers and parents develop awareness about the types, causes and consequences of bullying behavior.
This book has been written to shed light on the traumas that are an integral part of our lives. It aimed to illuminate and raise awareness about many traumatic experiences from infancy to adulthood, from natural disasters to torture, from sexual harassment to terrorism, from mobbing to Coronavirus.
In addition, the lives of famous actors we watch in TV series and movies, musicians whose songs we listen to, political figures, athletes or writers whose books we read with admiration are examined. How these people, each of whom experienced deprivation, desperation, disappointment, harassment, abuse, and rape, cling to life, struggle, and how they reached the top from scratch are covered. For example, in all these lives, those who had a difficult childhood, who did not trust themselves, who felt inadequate, who had fear of failure, said, “I wonder! Can I do it one day too! Can I do it!” I hope it will be instructive, motivating and encouraging for everyone who thinks so.
In addition, the lives of famous actors we watch in TV series and movies, musicians whose songs we listen to, political figures, athletes or writers whose books we read with admiration are examined. How these people, each of whom experienced deprivation, desperation, disappointment, harassment, abuse, and rape, cling to life, struggle, and how they reached the top from scratch are covered. For example, in all these lives, those who had a difficult childhood, who did not trust themselves, who felt inadequate, who had fear of failure, said, “I wonder! Can I do it one day too! Can I do it!” I hope it will be instructive, motivating and encouraging for everyone who thinks so.